Andrew Marvell

The Definition of Love

My Love is of a birth as rare
As 'tis for object strange and high:

Personified abstractions

Despair and Impossibility are the parents—Marvell treats emotions like mythological figures who can breed. This makes the impossible love feel cosmically ordained.

It was begotten by despair
Upon Impossibility.
II.
Magnanimous Despair alone

Magnanimous

Means 'great-souled' in Latin. Despair isn't pathetic here—it's noble, even heroic. Only grand despair could produce this kind of love.

Could show me so divine a thing,
Where feeble Hope could ne'r have flown
But vainly flapt its Tinsel Wing.
III.
And yet I quickly might arrive
Where my extended Soul is fixt,

Iron wedges

Splitting wedges driven between logs. Fate physically forces the lovers apart with metal tools—violent, industrial imagery for cosmic intervention.

But Fate does Iron wedges drive,
And alwaies crouds it self betwixt.
IV.
For Fate with jealous Eye does see
Two perfect Loves; nor lets them close:
Their union would her ruine be,
And her Tyrannick pow'r depose.

Tyrannick pow'r

If perfect loves united, Fate would lose her authority. The lovers are so perfect their union would overthrow cosmic law itself.

V.
And therefore her Decrees of Steel
Us as the distant Poles have plac'd,
(Though Loves whole World on us doth wheel)
Not by themselves to be embrac'd.
VI.
Unless the giddy Heaven fall,
And Earth some new Convulsion tear:
And, us to joyn, the World should all

Planisphere

A flat map projection of the sphere. To unite, the 3D globe would have to flatten—geometrically impossible. The whole world would need to break its own physics.

Be cramp'd into a Planisphere.
VII.
As Lines so Loves oblique may well

Oblique lines

Non-parallel lines intersect at angles. Other loves can meet because they're imperfect—only their perfect parallelism prevents meeting.

Themselves in every Angle greet:
But ours so truly Paralel,
Though infinite can never meet.
VIII.
Therefore the Love which us doth bind,
But Fate so enviously debarrs,

Conjunction/Opposition

Astrology terms. Conjunction = planets aligned (good). Opposition = planets opposite (bad). Their minds align but their stars oppose—the punchline to the whole geometric argument.

Is the Conjunction of the Mind,
And Opposition of the Stars.
My Love is of a birth as rare
As 'tis for object strange and high:
It was begotten by despair

Personified abstractions

Despair and Impossibility are the parents—Marvell treats emotions like mythological figures who can breed. This makes the impossible love feel cosmically ordained.

Upon Impossibility.

Magnanimous

Means 'great-souled' in Latin. Despair isn't pathetic here—it's noble, even heroic. Only grand despair could produce this kind of love.

Magnanimous Despair alone
Could show me so divine a thing,
Where feeble Hope could ne'r have flown
But vainly flapt its Tinsel Wing.
And yet I quickly might arrive
Where my extended Soul is fixt,
But Fate does Iron wedges drive,

Iron wedges

Splitting wedges driven between logs. Fate physically forces the lovers apart with metal tools—violent, industrial imagery for cosmic intervention.

And alwaies crouds it self betwixt.
For Fate with jealous Eye does see
Two perfect Loves; nor lets them close:
Their union would her ruine be,

Tyrannick pow'r

If perfect loves united, Fate would lose her authority. The lovers are so perfect their union would overthrow cosmic law itself.

And her Tyrannick pow'r depose.
And therefore her Decrees of Steel
Us as the distant Poles have plac'd,
(Though Loves whole World on us doth wheel)
Not by themselves to be embrac'd.
Unless the giddy Heaven fall,
And Earth some new Convulsion tear:
And, us to joyn, the World should all
Be cramp'd into a Planisphere.

Planisphere

A flat map projection of the sphere. To unite, the 3D globe would have to flatten—geometrically impossible. The whole world would need to break its own physics.

Oblique lines

Non-parallel lines intersect at angles. Other loves can meet because they're imperfect—only their perfect parallelism prevents meeting.

As Lines so Loves oblique may well
Themselves in every Angle greet:
But ours so truly Paralel,
Though infinite can never meet.
Therefore the Love which us doth bind,
But Fate so enviously debarrs,
Is the Conjunction of the Mind,

Conjunction/Opposition

Astrology terms. Conjunction = planets aligned (good). Opposition = planets opposite (bad). Their minds align but their stars oppose—the punchline to the whole geometric argument.

And Opposition of the Stars.
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Reading Notes

Geometry as Love Philosophy

Marvell was writing in the 1650s when geometry and astronomy were bleeding-edge science. Descartes had just published his coordinate system; telescopes were revealing new cosmic mechanics. This poem weaponizes that mathematical precision to describe why love fails.

The geometric proof builds across stanzas. First, Fate places the lovers like distant Poles—North and South, maximum separation on a sphere. Then comes the thought experiment: what would it take to unite them? The whole giddy Heaven would have to fall, Earth suffer Convulsion, and the spherical world collapse into a Planisphere (a flat map). Marvell knows this is impossible—you can't flatten a sphere without distortion. It's not romantic hyperbole; it's geometric fact.

Stanza VII delivers the mathematical punchline. Oblique lines (non-parallel) intersect easily—those are ordinary, imperfect loves. But truly Paralel lines, no matter how far extended, never meet. The perfection itself guarantees failure. Lesser loves succeed because they're crooked enough to cross paths. This isn't a complaint—it's a proof.

The final couplet translates geometry into astrology. Conjunction of the Mind (mental alignment, like planets in conjunction) versus Opposition of the Stars (physical separation, like planets across the zodiac). The poem argues their love is perfect precisely because it's impossible—a metaphysical paradox dressed in scientific language.

What 'Magnanimous Despair' Actually Means

The poem's opening conceit is easy to misread as melodrama. But magnanimous (Latin: *magnus* = great, *animus* = soul) was a philosophical term in Marvell's time. Aristotle's 'great-souled man' possessed magnanimity—a kind of noble self-awareness. Marvell claims Magnanimous Despair alone could reveal this love, where feeble Hope would just flap its Tinsel Wing uselessly.

Tinsel is the key word. In the 1650s, tinsel meant cheap metallic decoration—showy but worthless. Hope is gaudy, decorative, fake. Despair is magnanimous because it sees clearly. The poem inverts the usual moral hierarchy: hope becomes the vice (delusional optimism), despair becomes the virtue (clear-eyed recognition of cosmic impossibility).

This connects to Marvell's political context. He was writing during the English Interregnum, after civil war, regicide, and Cromwell's rise. The old order was deposed (same word he uses for Fate's Tyrannick pow'r). Political impossibility was the daily reality. The poem reads differently when you know Marvell lived through a world where cosmic certainties—monarchy, church hierarchy—actually collapsed. His lovers can't unite, but empires can fall. The geometry is eternal; the tyranny might not be.