This is Donne's only poem spoken by a woman. The voice is unmistakable—she's the one arguing to stay in bed, defending her desire, and complaining about his work obligations. CONTEXT In Donne's other aubades (dawn poems), like "The Sun Rising," the male speaker dismisses the sun and celebrates staying with his lover. Here, the woman uses similar arguments but reveals something different: she's trying to convince a man who's already mentally left.
The poem's power comes from what she doesn't say directly. When she imagines light speaking, she frames it as defending her virtue: "being well I fain would stay, / And that I loved my heart and honour so." She's preemptively answering an accusation—that staying makes her shameful. The fact that she feels compelled to defend herself this way suggests the social stakes for women were different than for men.
The final stanza drops the playful tone entirely. "Business" becomes the real enemy, worse than poverty, ugliness, or falseness. A man who "makes love" while thinking about work commits the same betrayal as adultery. The comparison stings because it reveals her actual complaint: he's not really present with her, even when he's physically there.