Ode, Supposed to be Written on the Marriage of a Friend
Orpheus and Eurydice myth
Cowper opens by invoking the lyre of Orpheus, whose music charmed wild beasts and nature itself. The poem will rewrite this myth—instead of losing Eurydice to death, the speaker has kept her through marriage.
The reversal
Cowper shifts from ancient tragedy to present joy: Eurydice 'attends thy strain' not as a ghost, but as a living bride. This is the poem's central move—marriage as the happy ending the myth never got.
Shift to first-person confession
The poem switches from addressing the lyre to the speaker revealing his own story. 'Ah me!' marks the turn from abstract praise to personal testimony—he's the one who was 'bewilder'd and astray' until love found him.
Hymen, god of marriage
[CONTEXT] Roman god who presided over weddings and ensured fertility. Cowper uses classical machinery (gods, fate, heaven) to elevate the marriage as a cosmic event, not just a personal union.
Beauty vs. character
Cowper deliberately dismisses physical attraction ('beaming eye,' 'golden tresses') as insufficient. He names what actually enslaved him: 'beauty, elegance, and grace combin'd' emerging from 'that angel mind'—virtue matters more than appearance.
Vulgar passions vs. holy flame
The final stanza contrasts two kinds of love: temporary passion ('meteors of a day') versus enduring virtue-based love ('holy flame'). Cowper argues that love grounded in moral character survives aging and hardship; lustful passion does not.